UGH! I just wrote you a bunch of stuff and then got kicked out...waaaaaah
Anyway, I was just catching up on your sitch and feel just heart-broken for you. It got me thinking about our H's past...my H's father is on his 4th marriage and his mother just now got remarried...my H told me one time that he feels like can't fight the way he was raised anymore...it's like he's blaming his childhood for his irresponsible behaviors. Also, my H was never married before, but before we got married, we had broken up for a while and he moved out of state...he then started dating this other girl and eventually he started calling me again. From what he told me, they never officially broke up, they just kind of stopped talking. It has made me wonder if this is really true or if he just didn't have the balls to break up with her kind of like what he is doing to me now. Is he the type who just bounces from R to R because he doesn't know how to "work" on one and he's always looking for the "honeymoon" period.
These are the kind of questions I was asking myself on one of my previous threads, "MLC or just pattern of coping". Sometimes, I just wonder if H is truly in MLC or if this is just his personality...this is how he handles situations...when things get tough, the tough get going.
