Ok another stupid question and I can feel the 2x4's already

H and I have had some "heated conversations" regarding him checking up on the OW since the A - she was an escort (and I presume still is) and he thought he thought he could "help her" get away from "that" - whatever

Anyway, he has this thing about keep checking the local paper where we used to live to see if her ad is still in there. He isn't very good with the computer so he hasn't been able to search around and locate her (although I did - ad, website and all - however he doesn't know that)

So, he thinks he was successful, to some degree, if he doesn't find her ad but he still wants to keep looking every once in a while. He has this grand idea that she really needed him and he let her down, blah blah blah

The question: should I let him know that she is still "working" and perhaps that would deflate his "oh but look how I helped her" attitude?

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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