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[Heywyre]

Hmmm I so far I am the only female on COG's thread - along with two other guys - now THAT's kinky

COG, COG - my dear friend. I am sure we could talk for hours about the lack of interest in our spouses but that would just discourage us wouldn't it? I have been living with a spouse (that couldn't care less about sex) for the past, roughly, 14 years and you are complaining about 14 months?

Truly, no word of a lie, since 1993 (roughly) we have had sex (and I am being generous here) about 10 times - and only once in the past 3½ years - how sad is that. So when H says he "thinks the feeling is coming back" you can well imagine how I don't get my hopes up too high. I have heard that comment so many times its like a broken record or the boy who cried wolf, whatever saying you want to use, I have heard them all

I have been in complete menopause for about 3 years now and that, for those of you that don't know, can be like a male being roughly in his 20's when it comes to the sex drive - so not a good combination.

Have I screwed around on my H - no.

Do I plan to - no (at least not yet although the thought has crossed my mind many a time)

Have I tried everything under the sun - you betcha!

Do I still love him - amazingly so, yes

So the fight will continue