Well I started out in "Newcomers" forum back in 03, then quickly moved on to "Separated - Now What"?, then happily moved to "Piecing" about a year ago, and here I am, somewhat reluctantly in the "Sex Starved M".
There's a link in the footer to my Success Story. My previous thread in Piecing, still active, is My Latest Thread.
Basically W and I reconciled about 14 months ago, after four years of separation. Things were great to begin with, but the sexual part of our R dwindled very quickly. She just was'nt comfortable with it. We're still together, still best friends, still doing very well together, but the spark just is'nt happening.
I'm to the point of acceptance that, at 48, I may never have sex again. I'm also thinking that I can probably live without it if it means keeping my family together. It would be one thing if my W was a lying, cheating, angry, resentful, discouraging person, but she's not. She's very supportive, caring, friendly, honest, and beautiful. Just does'nt have a sex drive right now.
So here I am! Finally coming out of the closet, no more denial, no more excuses, I'm in a SEX STARVED M!
Looking forward to meeting some new friends here.
God Bless,
COG
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444