Olive, the turning off cell phone is great. It at least means he is giving your some thoughts and being a bit considerate. Like you said, it is easier on you, meaning, easier to DB in front of him.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?