My H was never mean/ugly before either. I think his problem is letting the years of anger, resentment, etc. build up toward me for things that he truly never bothered to talk to me about and I think he's slightly MLC plus he allows stress (year deployment along w/ financial issues etc.) to really get to him. Anyway everyone was shocked at what he was doing in our sitch too (wanting a D) because no one else saw it coming either (and I surely didn't). Hindsight is 20/20, etc., but still!!
All we can do is continue to do what we've been doing and hope that in the end they see that even through all this crap, we still stuck by them and just loved them anyway!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
