So hubs is off on a field trip today with middle child (they are mine from previous - he has none but treats them like his own). He's sent me numerous TMs just about the kids on the trip etc - nothing touchy feely but STILL....
I called our MC a bit ago to just briefly verify what I should do. (she cracks me up - she's not into the history or details - just says - "What is it that I can do for YOU??" So I quickly recapped our conversation yesterday and said we decided that since the sex is something that we both truly enjoy that we were going to keep on...she said good, that's a bond you want to keep...and then I told her about him not doing the ILY and what should I do? She said, if you want to tell him, tell him - then just keep doing the right thing!
So that's what I'm going to do - I will make a concious effort to not do it everytime I talk to him, hug him etc, but at least once a day. Also, we don't have the kids from Friday - Monday so I'll have plenty of time to show my NEW self off. It will have been a week since I started down this path on Friday - I can do it!! I plan to be totally upbeat and flirt my tail off (he loves that). No heavy R talk. None. We go back to MC in 2 weeks - I want to be able to smile like the Chesire cat when she asks what's been going on.
