need a little encouragement

[kissak]

I agree with you. Why should we be giving them everything when we get nothing in return. The problem with my H is that he is so nice to me. He is not a mean or ugly person. He is helpful to everyone, He would do anything for me and I mean anything except committ fully to fix our marriage. I asked him last night why he had to be nice to me. I think it would be easier if he just was down right ugly to me. I think....That's what makes it so hard how can I let go of someone who still makes me laugh. We get along great. I have I guess what people would call a sweet spirit about me. When people found out about our separation, they were shocked, we were the perfect couple and family. I hope that with more time, if that means with someone else, he will come around and realize the big mistake he made. MY H jumped right from being married to me to dating someone else seriously then back with me again. I think he realizes his mistake there that he needs to be alone to think about what makes him happy. HE is so confused. I am going to wait until after c session before i do anything.