Thanks for pat on the back... I actually told my friend the other day that I don't need to keep trying to figure this stuff out, I just need encouragement and support.. Hopefully he hears me.....
All,
This is a question that I have been wrestling with for sometime now. I believe that I know the answer but I want your opinions anyway.
Question: Should I go to the my W HR department and let them know of the situation between my W and the OM?
I personally think that they both should lose their jobs and work on there themselves and their families. This hosipital is a Catholic hospital and if they care at all they would not tolerate this type of behaviour. The stories that come out of the ER from its staff are amazing. It is a breeding ground for sin.
The reason that I am considering it is because this will force them to stay away from each other and I can put the decision about their work situation on the employer and stop wrestling with it myself. I also seeing that I am to protect my wife since she cannot protect herself and by doing this I can remove a avenue that is being used to attack her. As far as I know this is their only contact... then again I do not really know since I haven't snooped or asked recently.
