No problem, sweets. Unfortunately, we are all in crappy sitch's, but luckily we're here and hopefully are finding the knowledge & support to work things out the right way. I guess my sitch is really different in that my H is leaving May 1 for a year deployment. Right now, I'm just working on making our home life and our M as wonderful as possible so that is what he sees when he finally (hopefully he does this) has time to sit back & truly think about things from afar and maybe finally start looking at himself too. So far, everything has been my fault. I feel like everything from our financial difficulties, to him quitting school, to his cheating, to the fact that our oldest boy is a bit spoiled, is all my fault as far as he is concerned. Anyway, that's my plan for now. I guess I'm still on the fence (or more like it haven't really thought it through completely) as to whether we will need/have to have an R talk before he leaves. I guess I'm just afraid to do that -- the time is so short and I don't want to screw up what good seems to have happened in the past few weeks by doing that. Anyway, didn't mean to hijack your thread.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
