Originally Posted By: DIY
I'd gotten the impression that a woman who had sex when she wasn't into it felt "violated".
I had somewhat the same feelings here Eddie.

If anything, what changed for you.


She told me that she gave her body to me because she loved me, even though (at that particular time) she didn't really want sex, and she was pleased with herself for giving me something I needed, and showed no sign of being unhappy or feeling "violated". I believe her, thus calling into question the simple blanket statement that a woman can't give sex purely as a favor to someone else without feeling violated.

So, now it seems there's sex with desire, pity sex, duty sex, grudging sex, and the heretorfore neglected (and possibly miniscule) category of "love" or "gift" sex.

Last edited by Crazy Eddie; 04/04/07 05:26 PM.
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