Yup, have to agree with you there COG - I am withdrawing from sex. Forget it, its just not worth all the upset, struggle and frustration. I can see why people become celibate

I am starting to take care of me!! He is starting to see I am even more independent (which I have to be careful of because that is one of the things that started a lot of problems initially - he thought I didn't need him) so I have to walk softly in that department. But, at the same time, I have to let him know that I won't fall apart without him

I thanked him for taking my shoes in and said this morning that I would drop by after work to pick them up. He said "no dont' worry, I can get them later today, I have the ticket anyway". So I told him he was a sweetheart and he said "its no big deal" and I said "yes, it is a big deal and thank you, I appreciate it". He (almost blushed and) said "you're welcome"

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)