I'd gotten the impression that a woman who had sex when she wasn't into it felt "violated". I had somewhat the same feelings here Eddie.
If anything, what changed for you. Do you mostly see past that feeling to a point of comfort? What are some of the things you did to move beyond that point?
They gave up their job a long time ago, and you've got to really get and understand the fact that your family, your friends, and the rest of the world in general are much too busy with their own concerns to take over the job of being your judge and inquisitor, and you've also got better things to do than go down that cheeseless tunnel. Very good advice.
