When you call to interview C - see if they are Solution Based - find out if they want to start with the focus on fixing the problems rather than "looking to the past" to see how you got where you are. I interviewed 5 - picked one a friend used and she still spent two sessions on our past and after only 8 session told H to just D me....though at this time he did not admit the OW. My latest C was through our work TEAM program - see TEAM online http://www.team-eap.com/ this C was awesome - knows and supports DB and knew all the books I have been reading - sad thing is I did not even interview just went where it was paid for thru the new job....go figure!!!!
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing