Thats exactly what I am doing. One counselor said it would be false for him to say that any marriage could be saved. But that ending a relationship on lost feelings would be foolish. Affection and love are the products of applied emotional integrity and creativity. If the feelings have gone, it means that one or both parties are not creating the proper conditions. Sentimental loving needs to replace it. Not quite sure what all that means, but I guess that is why you go to a counselor.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
