mom, no, don't do that till you are ready. I've only asked my H a few times in the past week and his response was, "Well, I haven't really thought about it."

so, I handed him a bag on Sunday and I'm working on bagging up the rest. I dont' think he wants his old stuff. I think its easier for them to start fresh and my H has the money to do it.

but, you can bag it all up and put it away so you don't have to look at it. that might help.


Me 31
WAH 30
M 5
Together 14 years
S 4
divorced 7/11/07