MICHELLE, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE NEW BOOK. I JUST GOT IT TWO DAYS AGO AND HAVE ALREADY READ IT. MOST OF IT MAKE SENSE TO ME BUT I AM STILL HAVING TROUBLE WITH SOMETHING. MY H CAME HOME TO ME ALMOST ONE YEAR AGO AFTER ADMITTING TO 3 DIFFERENT AFFAIRS, THE LAST ONE BEING WITH A CO-WORKER WHO HE LIVED WITH FOR OVER 9 MONTHS (MY SONS AND I WERE LED TO BELIEVE HE LIVED WITH A MALE CO-WORKER ALL THIS TIME) HE ADMITTED TO THE RELATIONSHIP, WANTED TO MAKE THE M WORK AND CAME HOME. DB HELPED ME THRU ALL OF THIS. NOW THAT HE HAS BEEN HOME, WE ARE STILL NOT INTIMATE. HE CONTINUES TO SAY THAT HE IS NOT PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO ME (I AM OVERWEIGHT) AND USES THE FACT THAT THE OW LOOKS REQUIRED NO EFFORT FROM HIM IT WAS ALL NATURAL AND EASY WITH HER. I HAVE JOINED THE GYM, I AM EATING HEALTHY AND IT IS ALL FOR ME. HOWEVER, I AM COMING CLOSE TO THE END OF MY ROPE. YOUR BOOKS MENTIONS THIS PROBLEM BUT IS IT REALISTIC TO THINKS I HAVE TO WAIT TO HAVE AN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP WITH MY H UNTIL I HAVE LOST ALL THE EXCESS WEIGHT. CAN I DO ANYTHING AT ALL TO HELP US GO IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION? I AM JUST ABOUT READY TO GIVE UP WHICH IS A SHAME CONSIDERING HOW FAR WE HAVE COME. WOULD LOVE TO HEAR WHAT YOU THINK. THANKS
