Ok here is this mornings update: Yeah I have an update....
Well before I started DB'ing I had a good friend that I confided in and still confide in. About 2 yrs ago his wife was a WAW and they have since worked through most of there isues. They are now happliy married. Ok, so you now a little bit more about my support system. I have my in-laws, and my friend. I have heard the warning about the in-laws, so I am trying to not tell them the details of our sitch...this is hard since they have had great advice.
Well my friend and I, before I found this site always tried to figureout what is going on and what can be done to fix the sitch. He would always get me worked up about the OM and one day we drove by the OM room to see if he was there with my W. Well they were not there, but little did I know he started playing detective after that. Yeah that is right he has been playing detective. As he was learning things he would inform me, to which I told him that I did not want to know what he was up to and made it clear that I did not ask him to do this. Well a couple of weeks ago he did catch my W at the OM hotel room. She still claims nothing sexual has occured. I actually thought that day was my wifes breaking day.... She later apologized and stated that she wanted to work on our M. Well by the end of that night it was apparent that she wanted to run again. I called her on that and she was confused that I could read her since she thought that she was playing the part. I do not get enough credit for knowing my W.
Well lets fastforward two weeks. We thought that the OM left his hotel and had no clue as to were he went. Well my friend called me this morning to let me know that he was back at the hotel. To which I answered that I did not care because I cannot prevent their interaction. I also did not want to know because....well I don't want to know.
So no real drama has happened today and I am really not expecting there to be any. My in-laws are joining my family for dinner tonight and then we will be going to church for a mid-week service. Even though there probably won't be any conversations or drama tonight I will update everyone tonight.
