HB - you're right. Your H does have to get through his feelings for OW. That's got to be so hard to watch and I'm sure just makes you mad sometimes! The good news is that he WILL get over it and when that happends, your M can soar!!

My H is continuing his IC and I have a lot of hope that he will get to the bottom of the "why's" of the A. It's a painfully slow process, though. So, I'm just trying to keep my sanity and my mouth shut!

PS - LOVE the maids outfit idea. What guy wouldn't drool over a W who does that???!!!!!