I can't imagine that H would have fessed up to the fog times in that Newcomers sitch even if he does remember it. If he's done w/ that he wants to forget about it, leave it in the past -- why would he bring that up in a group?
I also wondered about that “like who?” question, if maybe he is gently testing you a little to be sure that you won't throw his mistakes back in his face. I think it's great that you two talk about this "fantasy," maybe one day you will make it a reality.
Glad you're enjoying the kids and that things are going well, despite a few "aftershocks." Honestly I don't know how you do it, don't know if I ever could, but you sound great. Thanks for the update.
