Allright, I will read the book. But I am really unsure about this Leaving-the-Book-Lying-Around-the-House tactics. Will have to think that one over.

It sounds like Michelle is saying the base for the No-Sex-After-Marriage problem is an Information/Understanding issue rather that the brilliant Solution/Focus theme in the DB series.

Wouldn't you need both?

Still find it quite problematic that the new method needs two people to do changes ... vs. with DB only one person can start and then the whole system changes ... that did work.

Thanks anyway for the encouragement. (NB: The flat I saw yesterday was depressing anyway, so I might just read the book instead, it's way easier ... )