Does anyone else think this?

[grislen]

I have asked my W about it and she said she has only done that once in the last year or so. Unless she is lying about it which I doubt.

Lee

[CeMar]

HD:

Most LD women I think actually believe that it is normal for women to not have a sex drive. That is because so many of them are this way. I actually overheard about 5 women talking about this, and yes, most of them were having little to no sex, and of course were complaining about how there husbands were such sex maniacs. I tell you, men that marry women that LOVE sex are the luckiest guys alive. The rest of us get cr#p.

[Illiniman88]

I got the courage to ask my wife if she mb, and she told me that she hadn't in years. She can just go a longer time than I can.

[NHTom]

She's too self-conscious. Even in the house after I've gone to work and the children are off at school.

[Bube]

Mine too. She would never consider something like that. And we live in the country too. No houses or roads in sight of the back of the house - just horses and hay fields.

Wildebube

[barneyfife]

I agree with others about LDs not MBing because they just don't have the need. My W has made a point to tell me that she did as a teenager. I'd be shocked to find out that she has since being married, though. (If she does, I want her to show me. )

Mike - MB: it's not a choice, just a lousy substitute

PS - Welcome back MM

[Cybervixen]

Do any of the HD partners ever wonder if you partner is mbating instead of ML to you?

Nope. No interest in that or porn. So, I'm learning not to blame myself for this sexless marriage.

CV

[Cybervixen]

I tell you, men that marry women that LOVE sex are the luckiest guys alive.

I wish my husband thought so.

CV

[waytoo]

Yes, I think my H MBs. He also had an affair during the course of his LD. From therapy it seems that he experiences incredible anxiety about ML with me. He feels like he's "performing" and he already has real performance anxiety (public speaking, etc.). The other day he finally told me that he felt selfish initiating sex. At least it wasn't an excuse.

[cinemanymph]

HP,
It's true, LDs can go months without relief, 'cuz they don't have anything to relieve.