I'm a very jealous person . . . the thought of my husband and another women infuriates me. He is always talking about this one girl from work . . he knows a lot about her. He says he talks to her because they drive the same car, like the same music, and are into the same stuff . . . but that's EXACTLY what scares me. I think he's falling for her (she's not a bad looking girl). I'm pregnant and not real attractive . . . he never pays much attention to me and I practically have to beg I love you s and compliments out of him. I wish I could just beat the $*#@ out of her and then I wouldn't have to worry about it. Any advice on how to calm my jealous mind down??
My H and I were bestfriends and we actually got together because I could really talk to him. We've always had quite a bit in common it's just that lately he seems to have lost interest in me and he's been talking about her quite a bit! I'll try some of the things you posted as well as some of my own goals and we'll see how things go . . . I've stopped bringing up the other girl because I don't want to push him into her!! When he first found out I was pregnant he wouldn't let me do anything myself and it was sweet (but kind of annoying) and he was really excited but it seems like he's lost all interest in the pregnancy and half the time in me! Sometimes when I really need his help with something I can't do because lets face it this large bulge in front makes some things hard, he doesn't even look at me twice but simply lets me lumber my way through it (sometimes I just give up!) I just thought of another goal . . I'm going to start looking at all the positive things he does so I'll start seeing him in a better way . . .
