First, have you checked out the "Just For Fun" forum?
There is a thread I started over there called "Little things to boost the PMA". Definately check that out.
I love making lists, so I suggest you print out all the great ideas on that thread, make a list and start trying 3 new ideas a week.
Then I suggest you created a second list of the new things you've tried and loved!
Another suggestion I can give you came from the book called "Simple Abundance" by Sarah Ban Breathnach.
She suggests cutting out pictures from magazines of things you want to manifest in your life.
I did this with a group of friends. We each brought whatever magazines we had and shared them. Then we each went through the magazines cutting out whatever pictures appealed to us. We pasted our pictures onto posters and then hung them up in our homes.
I had created mine before Husband and I separated. I took it with me when I moved into my parents house. And I accomplished almost every single picture on that poster.
I found that having that visual to look at every day really helped me stay focused on the sort of life I wanted to create.
I believe for the first 6 years I was clincally depressed.
We separated for 16 months. I went on Zoloft, got my life back, weaned off of Zoloft. We began dating again. He noticed my changes, he read Divorce Remedy and after much stalling and fear on his part, agreed to reconcile.
We've been living together again since Oct 2003.
We've hit rough patches, but I believe, thanks to DBing, we've learned the tools to have a healthy relationship.
I'm still posting to the BB because I know I'm still going to hit rough patches and I'm not ready to stop asking for help yet.
Hi PIB - I've been lurking around your posts for a while, love them. Like your new thread, and feel brave enough to jump in now It is good to have you around here Good luck with the program. Slowly