Thanks for the kind words, Minnie. I have received so much comfort and assurance on this MB, I don't think I will be able to pay my debt here in full - I am glad to be working off my tab bit by bit
Quote: Earlier in the evening H asked me why I was grabbing him Monday night? Was it for me or H? I said it was for both of us. H said again was it for you or me? I repeated what I said. Do you think H thinks I’m using him for the sex?
The correct answer here is "ooh, baby, I need you". Got it? repeat after me - "Oooh baby, I need you". Trust me on this - I'm older and wiser No guy wants to think you are sleeping with him because HE wants it. He wants to think you are DYING for him and just can't control your desire for him. Trust me.
(((HUGS))) Yeah for your great night last night. Sounds like fun for all in the yard.
I thought of you today. On the Today show they were cooking with flowers. And they said that Pansies are edible and taste minty. (They did say to buy them from a credible source as the ones in your garden may have pesticides and such on them) But I love pansies and have some here to plant as well!
I hope you have a great weekend. And just to tease you a bit, check out my thread to see my plans!
I'll chat with you next week. Hope you are able to make it out golfing this weekend. I think you are probably in for alot of rain though - that is what we are going to get here.
Anyway, have fun!
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"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
Quote: The correct answer here is "ooh, baby, I need you". Got it? repeat after me - "Oooh baby, I need you".
Got it!
Quote: No guy wants to think you are sleeping with him because HE wants it.
Really? I think by saying "for us" at I remained neutral. And to be honest I really did want it for me! but I do see your point, H doesn't have to know.
Cathy, Enjoy, I guess your H and God is showing you there is a wonderful man in there. Hold on to those memories, they will help you get through the tough times! Soon you will have tons of wonderful memories as your H slowly makes it through his MLC. And I'm sure he will!
I need a 2x4 this morning. H has been leaving well before his start time in the morning, my ASSumptions are saying he's stopping to see OW before he heads to his job. In my mind I'm thinking it's a lot of driving if he does stop and see here, but then again I really have no idea. I'd really like to ask him why he leaves so early, but don't because I know better. I do don't I?
I noticed the other night, when H asked me to take his truck to the gas station to get some gas for the lawn mower, that OW's house key is back on his key ring He doesn't have a lot of keys and it's very clearly etched "H" into the key.
Great evening last night, that's two in a row. S20 came over for dinner. When I talked to H in the afternoon he mentioned that he was feeling kind of "thirsty" but then said he'd be there for dinner and that he could always go after. I don't usually say anything either way, just let him do what he wants. I mean what do you say to someone who's going to a bar to drink when he has a drinking problem? No don't go..or just let him go..it's not going to stop him, but will he feel guilty and decided not to go?
We had dinner which was great! H had to go get some fishing stuff. So we went to the park. I was telling my freind the other day that a good thing that happened to me out of H's mess was that SS20 and I have been really close. So we go to the park, SS20 is playing with S4 on the swings..SS20 is a big kid himself. I looked up at one point and he was on top of the swing set! They played for awhile and we then walked on the bike path, S4 had his bike and SS20 was again acting like a kid and goofing around with little guy. Left the park, stopped to get ice cream and went home and sat outside and ate it.
All three of them were in the basement I was upstairs watching CSI. During a commercial I went down to see what they were doing and they were playing a game of horse with S4's basketball hoop. Thought the heck with CSI I'd rather be down here. There is a TV down there too, but didn't want to turn it on, you know wreck the atmosphere. And now that I think about it all three are a bunch of kids!!!
H was working on fishing stuff all evening, have no idea where he's going, what's he's getting "ready" for either. I asked if he was going fishing and he said it's supposed to rain this weekend? SS20 told me H was going fishing if he was rained out today.
I'm sure he was rained out as it its pouring!
I called my H on my way into work and left a message on his cell phone, asked him if he was getting the wicked weather by him and that I was seeing bolts of lighting or was it closer to CP--town where OW lives--not thinking of that till after I hung up. It just came out of my mouth, I hope H doen't take it the wrong way. On the other hand kind of fits the sitch?
I think by saying "for us" at I remained neutral. And to be honest I really did want it for me! 
