I'm looking at this as a winnowing process. Get rid of the chaff, guys that I have nothing in common with, and see about social and other compatibility issues before I start the "intimate interview" process. Last time it didn't work very well, but life was different 18 years ago and I hope that I'm wiser now.
How do I know? It's been eons since I've dated much less anything else.....Might have to have several interviews to see if the attraction is there and if he is adventurous or not..... I won't know until I finally decide to give it a go, will I?
Quote: If she said..."that's a good idea", I would do it and be happy about it.
Hmmm... so if you would be happy about it if SHE wanted it, why don't you do it? Why does HER opinion (you're crazy) matter so much? Food for self-reflection?
Hmmmm....yes. It is food for self reflection but the other factor preventing this decision to go above the "action" threshold is simply money. My priority right now is to have a family trip, buy a road-bike for training which might actually improve the gut, etc. I was just saying that it's pretty low priority for that much $$$. If my W wanted me to do it, then it would elevate in my priority structure. But the bike and trip would still come beforehand. What I really should examine is what my priorities would be if my W came to me and asked for $2K to get a boob job.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
I said that I allow wiggle room, meaning a few extra pounds and more wrinkles. I am not unrealistic. But being 50 lbs overweight is a SIGNIFICANT CHANGE, and one that does not have to happen. My wife also expects that same of me, she has told me what she wants me to fix, and I am doing so. We all age, gain some weight, etc. But we also have the obligation to be in the best physical shape we can be for our spouses. My wife has some major body issues, AND IT DOES NOT COME FROM ME. She puts pressure on herself, I actually try to COMPLIMENT her, but what I think does not really matter, she is very unhappy about her own physical problems.
- Heavyheart (who never believed in boob jobs before, but is getting a little saggy after 3 kids)
Ooops....my bad. That was a quote I had gotten for lipo for me but I've seen "straight forward" breast procedures advertised for $2k-$3k. The type of thing my W would probably do is a lift w/o augmentation but I understand that sometimes a small implant is required and this costs closer to $5K-$8k. It really depends on which city you live in too.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
I've been feeling ugly lately too...not sure if it really is me or if it's pms...I've been contemplating about a boob job too...reduction and lift...but my SO says I just need to get my boobs filled up... I think I just need to be smaller...I don't know how much boob jobs cost...but the one I wanna get is 10k...which I don't have...hehe
NMB asked: How are you going to sort out which ones are HD or LD? (Any tips guys?)
This is hilarious!! This morning at the gym, I was thinking about asking the HD women here how a guy is supposed to know they are HD. Is there some sign we should look for?
As for finding a HD man, I didn't know there was any other kind. But after being enlightened here, I think the best way for a woman to know is to make a simple statement to the guy who asks her out. "Look, when I marry I'll need sex like 12 times a day. So don't bother me if you're not serious."
Not only will the HD guy fall in love with you right there, but you'll be able to get a good laugh as the LDs run for their lives.
I doubt if there is anything in anyone's apprearance that would be a tip off. Probably more to do with attitude than anything else. I guess you would have to ask. TASTEFULLY.... Someone want to write a script that we can follow so we don't screw up?
