Honeypot, I think it's interesting - I am pretty much ready to go at anytime. I've often heard that men are, but I haven't found that the case in my sit. I can make it happen anytime - even when being woken up from a deep sleep.
Men seem to prefer to sleep unless they are in the mood.
What do you call the erection caused by looking at porn? How about if your wife makes contact with your penis to cause erection; is this in between a "lovie" and a "yankie"- a "lankie" ?LOL
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I personally can not understand how a man can be to tired for sex, it NEVER happens for me. However, being tired a lot can be an indication of depression. As far as being "woody", I believe that any compression of the package can cause it to become "woody" without any effort. Will he let you deep throat him when he is asleep like that?
Man, what I wouldn't give to have a wife like you!!!!!
I am ALWAYS in the mood for sex, ALWAYS, 24/7/365. The absolute best moments of my life are being awakened by my wifes great lips wrapped around my most precious package. NOTHING BEATS THIS! Being too tired for sex, is IMPOSSIBLE for me. I have a very busy life, but it is still impossible to be too tired for sex. I honestly can not understand how any man COULD be too tired for sex!
Wow, Honeypot - I think I lived your life!!! And to all you HD guys out there, I always wondered the same thing: How can he have a perfectly good hard one and let it go to waste???? Pick an excuse, any excuse (I wanted to have cards made up for this): too tired, have to wake up too early, too preoccupied, too stressed, too much on my (his) mind, not feeling well, or in the morning - feeling like I have had some sleep and don't want to waste my (his) energy, too much to do, need to get my sleep and don't want to take (i.e. waste) the time,.... it goes on and on and on and on..... but here's the ultimate: "ignore it and it will go away" AAAARRRRGGGGGHHHHH!!!!!!
Anyway, HP - I really, really, can sympathize with you - I've been in that bed and in that life.
Also, to stay with the original posting about clitorises (is that how the plural is spelled??)
Been reading this post for a while now and thought I'd pipe in for a sec. I too am HDM and can't imagine not wanting to have sex with my W or any woman ( were I single ) that was interrested. I believe that there has to be interrest in any relationship between both parties. Now "interrest" can be many things, each of us has our own view of whats interresting in another person. Suffice to say that if a relationship is going to last, then there has to be other interrests between them outside of the bedroom. My W was a HD when we first met, then over time changed. It wasn't that she liked/wanted sex any less, but according to her, it was too much work. Why?, because she had a dozen other things on her mind, and was unhappy with our R as well. W was not able to seperate (work ) all the issues in her mind, to "focus" on the sex. Myself on the other hand, ( and most men ) can seperate in our minds and so are primed pretty much 24/7. Maybe a big part of LDS is that they are unable to distance their problems long enough to become interrested. I don't believe it's a physical inpairement ( presuming the plumbing is working fine ) as much as it's a mental/emotional one. IMO of course
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