Well so the Ice queen has returned. The last couple of weeks my W has turned back into her im a bitter evil person mode. She is very diffecult to live with lately. All moody all the time and she just seems angry.
Anyway so it has been like 3 weeks and i'm having serious issues try to be nice and not let her know exactly how I think.
I think im just venting mostly but you know I have just been thinking why the HE!! do I stay. I can't believe how fast and easily this thing changes. 3 weeks ago I had some optimiusm that she had started to figure it out. But now she is always tired and such. I need to take a time out for myself.
That is the problem she just seems to be very angry just below the serface. I don't know if it is me. If she has decided that she is having body image issues again. She always says she is so tired all the time but gets more sleep than me. That seems to be a recuring theme in the LD problem they are always so tired.
The Funny thing is I do most of the chores around the house. Im the one who is doing the laundry, im the one who is vacuuming the rooms, im the one who is loading the dish washer.
I just want to have a freak out. Just go crazy not be the responsible one in the R.
I hear you. My W's mother once said that, between her two daughters and their husbands, I was the most responsible one of the four. My W got all pissed off, asked for examples. Her mom gave one, where I agreed to stay and watch about 6 kids during a vacation and let her and sister, etc., go have fun. My W said, "that doesn't mean he's responsible. He's just gullible."
Damn, I just need to get laid that would help so much wouldn't be as pissy and all why can't she figure that out I mean really what kind of words does it take to get through to her.
Oh come on, you need more than to just get laid. You want that passionate wife back who you thought you married. If you figure out the secret words, let me know. Feel like I've tried everything.
Quote: That is the problem she just seems to be very angry just below the serface. I don't know if it is me. If she has decided that she is having body image issues again. She always says she is so tired all the time but gets more sleep than me.
Hmmmm...angry below the surface, tired all the time...is there something she's angry about that she doesn't feel she can bring up?
I don't know if you have talked about this before Lee, but I'm just wondering. . .
Three weeks is a very hormonal time. I know for me I can switch on a dime depending on the time of the month. Something that really helped with that was Eve primrose oil. Two caps a day and I'm alot more steady for the month.
The other wonder I have is does your W snore? Is it possible that she has sleep apnea? I was diag last year with it after a sleep study showed that I stopped breathing 70 some times an hour. No wonder I was a walking zombie and would kill the H when he woke me up with needs. And boy does it kill your drive. After some surg I not "only" stop 3 times which is considered "normal".
. I think they are secret because I haven't found them.