I used to have season tix to the Yankees games and that was before Jeter played for them (he's a heck of ballplayer and a hottie too)!!!
I am the master of creating positive energy and love in my own environment. I am the source of love in my life. It starts with me! This energy radiates from me! It gives me strength, courage, wisdom and grace!
No rejection. We just need to clear up some issues first. When the D comes through, I move back to NoVa, and get my annulment, I'll reconsider.
You can hate the Yankees all you want; some of my best friends are Yankee haters--I just don't like the NL. I also dislike Peter Angelos , but love Camden Yards and will take you to many games! I even won't mind if you keep seeing Berto, TripleJ, Seattle, and Hud, but no EAs!!! Vut first, I need to see if Briget will have me. And Christine too-she loves the Yanks. Your competition is hot my friend!!!
Just a different twist here...as for the C talk, I keep seeing the same "cheeseless" conversations going on; how about something different next time it is brought up? When your W says that the C can't make her love you, why not try and say something like, "that is true but the C may be able to help us figure out where to go from here" or "well, maybe they could help us get through this anger that we have and at least be amicable for the kids". Not sure if it will help things but may give a different taste in her mouth. She keeps bringing up love and obviously she doesn't want to be "forced" into that scenario, hence the drawn back to you concept, but tell her that a C can help for various other reasons as well.
Just my 2 cents Merrick...my experience w/MC is zilch but we are going to seek help on how to live "apart" (which is different from separated, how???). Anyway, I am hopeful that my C will give us insight to the underlying issues and help us both see what we've done to the R and with any luck, my H will see how much of a boob he's been these past few yrs! (sorry-little venting) Worth a shot!!
FYI. I didn't include you in my proposal above because I was leaving you for Eddy.
It so happens that W just sent me an e-mail on how to find an M counselor for her (to satisfy her family). I may be pressuring, but I sent her Michele's article on choosing a therapist. However, I also said that if she's not interested in this route, she should still be comfortable with whoever she chooses and that she should not be cheap with her well-being, i.e., don't ignore a good C if they are not on our health plan. That maybe another gamble, depending upon who she chooses. But so be it.
Just checking in with my favorite hockey and baseball aficionado...
And to give you a big hug for being the terrific guy you are and for your support in my own sitch.
I owe you a beer or two when you make it out here this summer. You don't have any issues with the game being at Invesco Field, do you? The architect and designer worked for the same firm as the one who designed Camden Yard. Go figure?
Time to check out ESPN and catch myself up on the latest scores. I'm too hired to watch hockey tonight ( ), so we're watching Brother Bear.
I'm beat.
Take care, friend.
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
I told you the women wouldnt be able to resist you Merrick! Wow your even getting proposals! Im impressed with your ability to control yourself. All of them sound like keepers. You better watch it with Christine though, Her H dumps her and your ganna have to fight me for her. BNaseball loving women are hard to find. Karens into baseball also! Heck she plays.
Sounds like your starting to adapt to your new found freeedom Merrick. Enjoy it, I compared it just today to being like I am 25 again. Little more responsability but still can have fun. I think Im going into a MLC developed from my WAW going into her MLC. Chain reaction I guess. Ill survive. Your doing great, keep that PMA up and Ill be checking up on you. God Bless, Eddy
Merrick and Betsey sitting in a tree ... kissin... or is it Bridget, um, er is it Christine, um er is it Karen, its too hard to see from here, I have to get closer.
Sorry, I couldn't resist. Sounds like you guys are talking without venemous slams against you, at least not all, I think that is a huge step.
If W hates an either or statement, what about not doing that? Telling her you have a blank slate for a mind and are willing to entertain any options, at least talk about them. If the dialogue is open, keep it open. Or I could keep my opinions to myself.
Eddy--Do you need a white cane or something? If I'm going to kiss Merrick, it sure as heck isn't going to be in a tree... but IF he's kissing someone, are you sure it's not you? Briget and I have confirmed it's neither of us...
Sorry, Merrick, just couldn't resist!
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
You think I need a white cane? I think you better check who wrote that post. But as long as we are on the subject...I cant believe no kisses yet? Merrick you are a devoted husband. We have to talk Merrick into a little fun in the sun on V. beach... God BLess, Eddy