Time to start a new thread, must be getting close to being locked out!
Added MLC stage, more of a reminder to myself. I'm hoping Snodderly/Sting will keep up with my thread so I know when he's moved onto depression or maybe it will be obvious by then.
I was thinking back to some of my conversations with H this weekend. He also confirmed that he has trouble sleeping at night. Thus the reason he's up so early and off to work. He just ends up sitting in his crane till he starts work which can be up to an hour or more
If I wait long enough, H volunteers information on his own. Friday night and Saturday night were our first official dates since the bomb! OMG..I just realized that now...that was a year ago.
Might be a good idea if H and I have more date nights, he's open to talking more.
First from your other thread, I think it was i'malright? that said to drop the rope. I second that. Drop the rope and try not to let your thoughts wander to where your h was.
Mlcer's also have a terrible time sleeping, so your h is hitting all parts. As your h tells you things, do as you did yesterday and let him talk with no judgment on your part. They do have a tendency to "tell" on themselves and some good listening will help to put the pieces together as to what's on his mind. Hope his stomach is okay.
Just stopped to say HI! And tell you what a great job you're doing! Do as sting says and listen, no comments, just listen. Your H has a lot of things on his mind and he will deal with them, PATIENCE!
