This is my last post on my previous thread... Can piecing be this slow? (can't get the link to work!)
Azure, isn't it odd... shows their mixed up heads, I think. Deb, thanks! Hope you're having a much better day today!! SS, great minds is right! I'm glad my text was in line... thanks for the feedback.
Quote: ------------------------------------------------------------------------ I posted on midlifecrisisforum.com on the infidelity forum (Question for mickb84) and got a great response. mickb84 is a guy who was in our H's shoes and got out of his situation and went home. Go read the post. It is very encouraging and reassuring to know that we are not all nuts. ------------------------------------------------------------------------
This was posted on the Infidelity forum and I went and read the site/post referenced here. This mickb84 is exactly in the shoes of my H... and has gained the kind of insight I wish my H had right now. It was very interesting to read his post -- as someone very emotionally involved with an OW, he realized it came down to him needing to decide what was more important to him-- his 15 years of M and all that went with that in his life, or his A. He sounds like he's done a lot of self-exploration... and really sees the LBS' experience pretty well... Now, if I could get him to become my H's best friend.... (kidding!)
Rats - I wasn't quick enough. I'm #3. {{{{{{{{{{{{Wonder}}}}}}}}}}}}}Love your new title!
Is H still dark?
Thanks for posting that stuff on Mickb84, that was quite interesting to read. Don't we all wish our H's would have those kind of insights? Did you ever read Calling All Former Walkaways here? That's an interesting thread, too.
If you have questions on your website, btw, I might be able to help, too. I know Front Page and am now learning Dreamweaver (which I love!)
Betsey, thanks for the link! How did you know I'm Irish??
Azure, I had forgotten about that thread... I'm going to re-read it. I've actually shared this kind of stuff with my H a few times... usually to pretty good results and conversations, but I do not think that would be a good idea right now.
Yeah, still dark. No response at all to my text. Missing drinking a Guinness with him today...
I have so many questions about my web site I don't know where to start! I know basic HTML and actually do basic web updates as part of my job, but I have no idea how to use this template I got from monster.templates.com or the fonts that came with it. None. I'm completely lost.
Quote: I have so many questions about my web site I don't know where to start! I know basic HTML and actually do basic web updates as part of my job, but I have no idea how to use this template I got from monster.templates.com or the fonts that came with it. None. I'm completely lost.
Are you using Front Page or some other web authoring software? What do you usually use to update pages? Basically you probably want to open the template and save it with a different name (like your site name) on your hard drive. Then you can keep opening that file, filling in text and pictures, and keep doing the Save As.
Yeah, I'm using Front Page. I can change text and add the links in, but can't get the fonts that are in the template to show up in my files... I think I picked a template that is too complicated. Can't seem to get the pictures out as they are faded into the background... and I want to scan in samples of my work, but can't figure out how to do that either! Pretty sure I will scrap the template and make a basic FrontPage site, even if it's not as pretty...
Betsey (and others) Was noticing in your advice to Karen you talked about being dark and success not going hand in hand... something Seattle was also saying on my earlier thread.
But if H isn't initiating any contact, I don't want to pursue by initiating contact with no response either. I am going ahead with my own stuff by all means... but maybe I should just pop out every now and then to drop him a line and see what happens?
Hi Wonder, My two cents - I think it would be good to pop your head out with something? Show him that you neither hate him nor are destroyed? Might help with the guilt he is surely feeling. My thought was maybe to ask him to do you a small favor with your computer or something & see what his reaction is. Don't know why I thought of this exactly. Oh I guess because I am imagining he feels terrible about the papers and would like a chance to do something for you. Just MHO, something to add to your reflections when you make a decision. Thank you again for your lovely supportive post on my thread.
Hmm...what kind of fonts come with the template? Perhaps you need to add them to your fonts folder? Did the website have instructions on how to use their templates?
