Quote: Quote hairdog: This one really pisses me off. ...I will finally give her a mind blowing orgasam. Then her response is to roll over onto her back, spread her legs, and say, "OK, Let's take care of you".
Oops, SD, this was CeMar, not me. My W won't let me do oral on her. She used to, but not anymore...said she doesn't like it. I know from past experiences, that women think I do a good job on this, so I don't think it's me. I miss it.
I used to wonder if she was lesbian, but this problem of hers with oral sex makes me think that if she were lesbian, she would be very lonely.
I think she just has some sexual hangups about oral. The last time she even tried it on me was when we were dating, in 1998.
Quote: My W won't let me do oral on her. She used to, but not anymore...said she doesn't like it. ...<snip>... I miss it. ...<snip>...I think she just has some sexual hangups about oral. The last time she even tried it on me was when we were dating, in 1998.
(sigh...)
last time I got to give it: 1996 last time I got to receive it: 1980 (?)
During an intense discussion about our finances, I was informed that he enjoys downloading pictures that remind him of me from the internet. By the way, these are porn sites. He left one out does look like a slighty younger version of me. So how this is suppose to make me feel better? I guess I am too stupid to see that he payed me a compliment by jacking off to some photo look alike. Yeah sure. Could you guys please tell me why it is so hard to say thank you to your wife? I pulled money out of my retirement fund, paid a heavy penalty and used to help keep us afloat and he said I didn't have a thank you coming because it is something I should be doing and you don't get thanked for what you should be doing. Yet, one of the things that he is mad about is that I don't appreciate all that he does around the house and that I say thank you so much it don't mean anything to him. Now, my problem is that I am confused. If he likes to be appreciated for what he does why can't I like to be appreciated for what I do? Do anyone know what I mean? I hurt so bad today. It's a good thing tha t you can't drown in your tears no matter how it feels.
WWB: You know, the porn thing is interesting. I've caught myself lingering on swimsuit ads where the woman looks like my W. Trust me...it's very complimentary eventhough you might not be able to live up to the image. I personally fantasize about W taking the steps to look and/or act a little bit like the models. I actually think it would be a turn on to see her acting out a fantasy, even if it was with someone else (as long as she took care of me soon after). I don't know how you turn it around because already, you are HD.
Let me clarify that I meant physically in shape like the models and mentally "sexy" and "confident". The reality is that most of the models are probably mental disasters in real life.
In the coastal area of New Jersey right now after taking the train from DC to Penn. I'm completely wiped out because I had to share a room in DC with a snorer. On my way out of the hotel, the secret service was clearing the area for GWB to come to some event at the hotel. Pretty cool.
The one problem with having a regular sex is that you really miss the companionship of your spouse when you travel. Last year, I could have traveled for a month without even thinking about it. I'm now "wanting" to call W at home versus last year where it was done out of obligation. This is a new emotion for me..."missing someone".