Sue....I am so incredibly HAPPY for you and your H. He is the big winner....even getting you back!!!
You are an awesome role model for me. We, also have been married almost 25 years (June 16)....H moved out 12 weeks ago, blah, blah, blah. BUT...you have been an inspiration to me....really.
And now H seems to be pursueing me...slowly...but he is coming closer each week. Not the big R talk, yet...bits and pieces tho...and he's trying. Do you realize you ACTUALLY are helping me/us out. I've read all your posts over time....especially when I needed a PMA boost.
My heart goes out to you....and I know God is truly in control. I also have gone through the full forgiveness process....it really helped too.
Drop by every once in a while....but spend most of your energy on your M and family. Yeah team...a REAL SUCCESS!!
HI.....thanks for all your well wishes.. I am so sorry that I don't come around much....seems like things have gone from busy to hectic...work is stressful..and I just never seem to be able to sit down and relax. I know that is not good..so will have to work on that.Things are great with H and me...he continues to show me all his love...the little things I had forgotten about and missed so..the hugs, touches...it is so easy to take little things for granted.
I hope that anyone who read this, will not give up hope for restoring your m..but you have to be willing to wait and be patient..and maybe even let your s go, in order to get them back. Will it happen to all? No..we know it won't, but you have to keep taking care of you...keep moving forward with your life..take each day as it comes, and find the good in it..and believe me there is good in everyday, if we take a breather and look around.
So hang tight..there were many people here for me when I needed a shoulder..
I am so happy for you and your H! What a great pick me up to read that you and H continue to do so well! And that he wanted to renew your vows! WOW! How romantic is that?!!!
Best wishes to both of you and please say a small prayer for my H to decide to come home too!
Take care, JL
Life is not measured in the breaths we take, but in the moments that take our breath away...
I am so happy to be able to give words of hope..encouragement...it really is about taking care of yourself..and that starts a cycle of taking care of all the other things that we have going.
I'm jealous!! ... You lucky lady you...you deserve it!!! so happy for you and your h!!
