I hope you got my message... just remember, your H is at HOME and he is there to be with YOU. Everything else is in the PAST... leave it there. Make this a new M, a new R, with all the excitement that brings. Pretend he is moving in with you for the first time... be flexible and loving.
This IS wonderful and worth the effort you have put into it.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.