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#239020 01/29/04 01:36 PM
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I think it is time for a new thread! Go figure. Meredith, I titled it in honor of you (and gotta give the props to Betsey too!)
No more looking back!

#239021 01/29/04 02:15 PM
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Pam,

I'll help you link... so here's Pam's previous thread:

My own thread...my sordid story

Thanks for your optimism last night... and reading your update this morning is WONDERFUL news! Pam, that broken record (like my crazymaking) now is obsolete. It's time to let that behavior go because it is no longer useful in your forward progress.

A good friend of mine told me a long time ago: "Change is good, but it is not always pleasant."

Another one told me a couple years later: "Don't look back unless you're going there."

So they both apply here and are words to live by.

Big hugs... and let your H enjoy making you happy some more! Hope your side isn't too bruised from falling out of bed.

And enjoy shark's lunch on Saturday... I mean, girl's lunch!

Hugs,

Bets


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein
#239022 01/29/04 02:32 PM
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Don't forget your phrase about peeing on the present, Bets!!

Pam, right at the beginning of the DB process I realized that I did the same thing. Sting couldn't make me happy because I refused to let him. He did things, they weren't the 'right' things and I scoffed at him. As my friend A would say, he couldn't possibly win because I had the game stacked in my favor.

Here's to being happy in our present! GO YOU!!

And Saturday works fine...I have a hockey game to attend Saturday night, but I'm free until about 3pm!


"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere." --Agnes Repplier, writer and historian
#239023 01/29/04 02:51 PM
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Anyone need some PMA? I have so much that I could package it up and sell it. But, for you guys, I'll make a deal....
Off to work...darn! Not enough snow today to cancel!
Catch up with you all later.

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Oh, I forgot...
Yesterday's dilemma solved itself. Seems all is well in the world of teeth and money. False alarm!

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See? That broken record now needs to go in the trash, where it belongs.

GO YOU!


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein
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Just my hugs for a Monday morning...

Bets


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein

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