Hello all. We still have not had our conversation, H and I, but I think my old thread title no longer applies, so I have decided to start a new one.
The title is based in a song by Pablo Milanés, a Cuban singer, poet and song writer. H and I used to listen to his music when we were dating in the cold November of 1989... and we looked forward to the spring. But fourteen novembers later, it still applies. Or so I hope...
Quote: Beginning and End of a Bright Green Morning
Allow me to awaken you with a kiss In the bright green morning that awaits you Allow me to celebrate the spring Along the beautiful length of your body.
Allow me to roam that universe That I know without limits or borders Allow me to recline on your breast That warms up my skin like a fire.
Allow me to reexplore your accidents Stop to touch every inch Moisten your eyes and your fountains And penetrate deep into your life.
Allow me to prove that ten novembers Purify the soul and its desire That when I embrace you still my body tremble And relaxed in peace, sleep comes later.
Allow me when we wake up to have the joy Of talking and sharing our yearnings And in the bright green morning that ends Of telling you once more that I love you, Of telling you once more that I love you.
Andrea may remember the song...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
Quote: We still have not had our conversation I might not push that either, in fact, you may never have it as it really may not be needed. The stuff that happened before, happened in your old R and with your old H, and you now have a new R with your new H. Keep doing what works in the new R and build on that. Remember that Solutions Baised therepy does not concern itself with why something happened in the past only what works in the future.
I am very happy for you that he came back and said "we will fix this"
I like the new thread I find it so hard to not have "the talk" everytime I see my husband - I don't know how you keep from having it when he is right there all the time. Mentally sitting on your hands 24/7? Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
i like the new digs...you are an amazing woman, i gotta say that in front of god and everybody
i know i for one was so angry in your sitch i told you some things that might not have been in your best interests, but you ALWAYS, each and EVERY time held your ground, and i gotta tell you woman, you RAWK - you were right all along, listen to your own instincs, that is first and foremost