Well, I have given up on dbing for H. Now am applying db techniques to myself and my son....so that we can piece together a new life for ourselves without H. WE CAN DO IT!
I hear there are more single men in Alaska than anywhere. This fact may not mean much right now, but you are in the GOLDSTAR state honey, all the best with all of it.
Be good to yourself. Let us know how you are doing.
Went out New Years...drank 7 up...had two eligible bachelors hitting on me all night long! Great for my ego....one asked me to go home with him and watch a movie after the bar closed....I declined. The other owns a huge painting contracting company and is really cute and very funny....hmmmm, so I am still marketable. Good to know. I am attractive, intelligent, caring, interesting, and worth knowing......
Boy, I haven't been good at keeping up with everyone for the past month or so due to my project and the holidays. Somehow I missed what was happening in your sitch and had to go back and catch up before I could post to you today.
I am sorry for the way things are going with your H but so proud of you for how you are handling the stressors in your life. You are a strong woman and can do anything you set out to do - your words on this BB are proof of that.
I am glad that you got "hit on" - it is a great PMA boost isn't it - even when you know it isn't going anywhere. Keep being strong and you shall be rewarded in the end.
Who knows what surprises lie in store for you? But you can bet that I (and everyone else here on the BB) will be here to support you.
You go girl!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
I have decided that I am not going to sink to his low life level. I am going to be kind, loving, and gracious. I am over being angry...which is sad in a way...because I am so detached now I actually feel nothing for him. His loss.
