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#219441 12/30/03 03:06 PM
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I'm thinking that's called detaching.


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
#219442 12/30/03 03:22 PM
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KK,

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looking at my husband this morning, he is certainly not as attractive as i once thought he was




Maybe that's because NOW you're seeing the 'whole' man, including the part, that at one time, you dared not to look to closely at.

I know the shine is now forever off my H's armor as well.
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#219443 12/30/03 05:46 PM
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looking at my husband this morning, he is certainly not as attractive as i once thought he was


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Maybe that's because NOW you're seeing the 'whole' man, including the part, that at one time, you dared not to look to closely at.

I know the shine is now forever off my H's armor as well.





I second that! Now our eyes are wide open and we see things that we never saw with those rose-colored glasses!

Deb


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D: 03/14/2006
#219444 12/30/03 06:16 PM
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But we are all human and we love them anyway!!!!


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
#219445 12/30/03 07:00 PM
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Im very new to this, is the hang out place still there? My stuff is in newcomers (just getting started Help?? RonS) not very original but it really fits.


Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming – WOW -- What a Ride!
#219446 12/30/03 09:18 PM
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Kitti,
I want to complement you on your positive attitude. You've got me thinking about some changes I could make. I think you're going to inspire some people here beyond just yourself!
On you're husbands\'s appearance I think everyone goes through that. He may need to make some changes in how he dresses, etc. Maybe you can inspire him when he sees your changes.


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#219447 12/30/03 11:11 PM
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so my husband and i were sitting this evening watching judge judy when a case comes up about the care of children where a daughter was suing her mil for false charges because the mil had called the child protective services on her

well one thing led to another and judy says that the needs of the children superceed all other needs - no matter what thier needs come first

so my husband turns to me and says, that is what i am talking about, that is exactly how it should be, that the childrens needs should always be first, not what the parents want, NO MATTER what the parents want, the needs of the children should come first

the old kitti would have said - oh yeah? i am sure you were thinking of the needs of your children when you were sexing around with the next door trollop - i am so sure that their needs were PARAMOUNT in your mind

ugh

why am i here, please remind me

kitti

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{{{{{{{{{{{Kitti}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Because you still love your H tarnished or not.

Because you want your d to grow up with a whole family, a nice normal family with a mother who is going to be smashing in 2004 and show her daughter how to be a Southern Belle!!!


Pam

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so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
#219449 12/31/03 12:49 PM
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Because you believe in something bigger than you, and you are not a quitter.

It was nice chatting with you last night.


Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!
#219450 12/31/03 03:10 PM
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i wish i had it in my heart to believe the both of you, but i am having a pretty rough day today

watching a movie together last night i thought i would try something different

gently a couple of times i brushed my hand up against my husbands arm and let it linger, and both times he pulled away - ever so slyly mind you but pulled away none the less

i am so tired of feeling like a POS in my own house

for god's sake, i am the mother of his daughter, and he can't give me the courtesy of being a friend??? i cannot even begin to tell you what his OTHER FEMALE FRIENDS used to get away with when they used to be around - but suffice it to say they got away with murder, and his OWN WIFE cannot get a touch

my heart hurts today

don't know how much longer i can do this. he is such a coward - he wants ME to be the bad one and leave - so he can cry to his next girl - oh she left me, i tried to do everything but she left me anyway

well he may just get his wish

kitti

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