I am going to change me. I am going to make myself into a great catch, or at least the best I can be. But then what? Once I am the WBH (world's Best husband), and my wife is still a cold fish, short of looking elsewhere, how does being the WBH make me feel good? It would just make me even angrier for having to do all the work and get NOTHING from it.
Gee, Tony...that would make you TP. Not sure you want to be that, although we've all felt that way before--so close to the promised land, but all we end up with is sh*t.
It's funny, I've used Hairdog for years and never realized it suits me so well.
HD, you're right, I feel like I have been used for TP! I guess I should have thought before commenting to you! Yours is a compliment, mine is well.... just like I feel!
Cemar, I just read this thread - how very revealing.
Quote: My wife has always told me that if I had another woman, she would cut IT off
I do believe there is hope for ya'll!!! If she feels that way and not just passive about the thought of you making love with someone else I am sure she could be motivated into restoring your sex life if she thought that her doggie bone was going to another nice little lap dog down the road. That smacks of jealousy - you could use that to your advantage.
Stop letting her call all the shots. This is your life too - not just hers. Stand up for yourself Cemar - maybe she just needs a firm push in the right direction - the direction of you will seek and find someone who will be a life mate and lover to you if she refuses to take the role. Let her know that her job as wife/lifemate/lover could very well be on the line. If her comfortable existance is threatened she might grab the bait so to speak.
Go to it man! Life is good and love is in the air.
