Happy New Year to you as well! Yes, the forum is very quiet.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Hey neff! He is doing well. Had a great Christmas with him complete with a nice seafood dinner. Now I’m just trying to get his and my house ready to sell in the spring. I’ll see him New Year’s Day I think... New Year’s Eve is reserved to parrrtay!
Think I already have some nice travel planned for 2019. Quick Cali trip already booked for early in the year and it looks like Las Vegas and Maui to follow.... and it’s not even Jan 1st yet!
So true! I hope he's not avoiding us. It's like a reality show taking a break. I'm thinking something will happen and he'll just have to tell us. Or show us how well things are going for him!
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
So true! I hope he's not avoiding us. It's like a reality show taking a break. I'm thinking something will happen and he'll just have to tell us. Or show us how well things are going for him!
Haha... I think you guys definitely did get to him. I would like to hear how things are going with him though.
So I like how people don't talk much about their ex's down here but I just heard this song by the Black Keys called Next Girl. It's pretty good. I don't feel like digging back for RAI's song thread so some lyrics below. BTW if you have time, find the record labels video on you tube, the one with the dinosaur puppet... I think it's pretty funny ;-).
Oh my next girl Will be nothing like my ex-girl I made mistakes back then I'll never do it again Oh my next girl She will be nothing like my ex-girl It was a painful dance Now I got a second chance
Hey there survivors! Glad to see it is lively down here. I feel so pedestrian reading everyone else's action packed threads. No dating for me... nor do I have any plans to start for at least a little while. I'm just going with the flow. I am not sure if my laid back style is an asset or a liability sometimes. Maybe dating will be an option after I sell my house in a few months and I move closer to civilization.
So I had some interesting thoughts earlier this week. I got a decent raise at work so that made me think back to where I was at BD. My salary is up 35% since then! wow!... and it was already a decent engineer's salary back then. That's in 3.5 years...cray. I've been pretty darn lucky I guess. Then I started thinking about what else has changed since then. So much has been done in that time! Gained 35 lbs (in a good way), finished my MBA, ran ~15 half marathons, a full marathon, rock climbing, some great hikes, tons of travel, yoga, and tackled some things I wanted to improve about myself. Time to keep it going!
I have some good things planned for this year. Sell the house is number 1. I also want to go on a legit hike... maybe Mt Whitney or Mt Hood...something like that. I think maybe Hawaii in October along with a half marathon there and maybe another full to end the year. We'll see... I'm super excited for the year though! Maybe by the end of it I'll rival J9 ;-).
I'm thinking something will happen and he'll just have to tell us. Or show us how well things are going for him!