I know...it feels like it's been forever though, i just never would of imagined in a million years that this would be my life, i can't dwell on my W too much, my kids need me and i will not let them down.
Sandi Thank You! I need to hear these things...i know sending the letter is a bad idea but sometimes (usually at night) my emotions overwhelm me...i really don't know where i'd be without this website
Everytime i'm about to make a mistake i log-in and either post or read through various threads. Sandi, once again thanks for the reality check!
It's a very good idea to discuss with the board whatever you are feeling......and especially, when you feel a strong desire to tell her.
I think it would help you to read the threads about the WW's mindset. It may be difficult to accept, b/c you love her. But at the same time, you would see what you are really dealing with.
I know...it feels like it's been forever though, i just never would of imagined in a million years that this would be my life, i can't dwell on my W too much, my kids need me and i will not let them down.
Hey Swagger, sorry to hear you are in this situation but I can totally relate to it as I find myself in the same exact position. I worked very hard in life to get to where I am (college degrees, beautiful wife, kids, and house). I did not expect this curve ball but now see how I contributed. I think the journey will be a long one, I dont know how it will end but feel it is worth taking...one day at a time. Good luck and I look forward to following your post.
Me:37 W:42 T:14 yrs M:10.5 yrs D:7 D:5 BD: 1/6/18 OM Discovered: 1/29/18 WW moved out 5/12/18