WW having EA with OW Possible MLC

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Thanks LH, I need to stick to this path for my own sanity. Tears at not spending time with the boys, then goes off for the day.

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After not seeing her all day yesterday (no idea what time she came home), she asks me this morning how are we going to resolve this. I was in no mood to talk, so we'll pick it up some other time. However, I don't think her definition of resolution will be the same as mine. We shall see...

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Riddle me this, how can they go from tears one minute to absolute defiance the next?

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Hi all, it's been some time since I last posted, and my situation has changed little.

WW is still seeing the OW and is asking me to wait for her . This is nearly 18 months since she embarked on this path. Inhouse separation (separate rooms) is ongoing.

I look and feel better than ever and this has not gone unnoticed. WW actions have left me feeling that we have no future together and I want to move on with my life, but she is still torn between OW and I.

I'm not sure what to do next and would gladly welcome some sage advice.

[LH19]

I look and feel better than ever and this has not gone unnoticed. WW actions have left me feeling that we have no future together and I want to move on with my life, but she is still torn between OW and I.

Well DD sounds like being plan B is not working for you anymore. If that's the case it may be time for an ultimatum.

Are you prepared to do that and walk and never look back if you don't get the answer you want?

[ovrrnbw]

Are you still communicating with her? Quit. If she doesn't want to work on things what do you really need to talk to her about?

Still doing the in-house separation? Tell her to get out.