Hello all! Not much to update, just wanted to start a new thread. My birthday came and went, I’m still pretty good at GAL and this time of year the weather is too nice not to make most of it outside. I have things swirling in my head that I may post another time, but for now, my mission is accomplished. Lol
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Ug. The weather in MN is horrible. I think I need new tires, it's more like I'm driving a sled than a car. And it gets so cold sometimes that just walking from the car to the front of the store is like turning on a cold shower.
So enjoy FL. When the time is right, swirl away. Cheers!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Thank you all for the birthday wishes, and thank you for the link, Job.
Here's the update I really didn't give last post: I had, for a few months, drifted back to a former site but that's over now. There are lots of good things about our relationship, but ultimately wasn't headed where I wanted. Painful, but time to move on. At the moment, I'm not dating anyone.
I've been considering carefully where I want to be in five years, and have decided my current job isn't part of it. I like it, I like the people I work with and work for, and the money is enough. But when I think about how I want to be living, this isn't it. So I have some work to do in that area.
For those of you who have known me a while, you know that I lost my church home in the divorce. I recently found out that the priest is leaving and I decided to give that church a try again. I went last Sunday and felt like I was home. Mr. P and now the duck still go there but that's not really the issue for me, it was the priest who knew my H was cheating on me and decided that I was the one who had to go. Now that he's leaving, I can deal with the rest. I think. I'm excited to give it a try anyway. That's a pretty big deal for me.
I think that covers most of my update. Irma told me I needed to re-do my front landscaping, and that's going to start next week. My kids are good, my GAL is on pointe. I feel like I'm right on the edge of many good things.
Ginger, have you picked a weekend yet? Zues, if you want to join us, you know where to find us.
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