Instead of doing chores, can you do something more active and mind occupying or social with others?
How is that guitar playing, beer brewing and renovation? Sounds like party at SBJ’s House.
And how about that shoulder?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
The XW’s Birthday, another one of those special days, it’s tough.
I hope you listened to Gordie, skipped the chores, and did something more engaging and fun. Guitar playing, cool. I play the accordion and also some piano. Hey, we almost got a band here....
Take care man. I’m thinking of you.
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
I saw an interesting quote this weekend and I thought about many of us on here.
"No amount of essential oils can get rid of batchitcrazy"!
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
Please keep me in your thoughts on Thursday...I am having shoulder surgery to repair a torn rotator cuff. Should keep me down for a few days and out of serious physical action for 8-12 weeks. I am wanting to not hurt. I guess everyone here can relate to that in a way.
My lovely ex called me and told me that she would drive me there, sit with me during the surgery and then get me home after. She has been very nice as of late and we have had several good conversations...nothing about relationships, just keeping things light and funny with us and the kids.
I hope everyone is doing well. I'm glad to see that those of you that were having missing posts are out of posting jail. haha.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. It's best to get this taken care of because the pain is nothing to sneeze at, as well, as the pain affects your day-to-day life. Once you are healed, you will feel far better than you have in a while.
I am also glad that your ex is going to be there to support you through this surgery.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Wishing you the best. Interesting that she offered and you accepted.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
