Hi guys, it seems like an age since I posted on here and I wasn't going too but maybe an update from myself may help somebody so here goes.
Unfortunately I'm getting close to the end of D proceedings but I can honestly say I am fine with that. Whether you end up back together or not I can not stress enough that anyone who is new to this rocky road NEEDS to take stock and focus on themselves.
It took me a long time to realise this and you will go through normal stages, and that's fine, but when you realise this time is for you and self improvement things WILL get better.
I'm conscious of rambling but if anyone has any questions I'm happy to answer anything.
So in short, how did you get to that place? That everything will be okay without your W, without your best friend, without the life that you thought you'd live? Do you have kids together? Do you plan to find a new R? Are you still open to reconciliation after D?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
