I mean what are your smaller goals as discussed in the book, that could be achieved in the next couple of weeks?
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Would you mind sharing more details about your marriage before the separation? I'm not surprised that things are worse now the he knows you know about OW. He was getting the best of both worlds and that isn't the case now.
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Assuming you're providing him some financial support (based on what you said in your first post), then I think you should contact him and tell him you're cutting him off (financially, that is). There's no reason for you to be providing him any financial support while you're separated. That should get the ball rolling.
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