BillyHo, I'm sorry you find yourself in this position. I'll try to catch up on your story and see if I have any pointers for you. Good luck and keep posting!
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
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Hi SM34. So happy to see another success story on here! So you did a full year of in house separation? I could use some pointers on that. I'm on month #2 and it has been quite difficult. Can you describe the specifics of the in house S? Boundaries, limitations, sleeping arrangements, financial agreements, division of chores and child care? How often did the 3 of you spend time together as a family? Did the dynamics change over time? Thanks!!
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
Same here, sometimes things get really dark and despite trying to work on us we get discouraged; but it's good to know that it's possible and we're on the right track.
Thank you for coming back to help others. A real live success story really boosts the moral of those fighting in the trenches.
I imagine that it cannot be easy to read the stories here and relive what you went through. I am glad you are at a place where you can do that. You are right about Cadet, sandi and many many others.
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together