Thanks. I just updated my thread. I still feel pretty lousy but it's likely because I'm still recovering from last night's drama. I will be forging ahead with the coach's plan to see if it makes any difference in my life (and my relationship with my W).
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
Yesterday I took S11 to a C appt. He is a very sensitive kid but seems to be dealing with the S pretty well. Afterwords I tm W to let her know he had to pick something up at my house and that I would drop him off after that. She responded and said she was making dinner if I wanted to join them. I had dinner with W and the boys and it was pleasant. I thought it was nice that she asked me to dinner.
After dinner I took S7 to basketball practice and W took S10 to his game. We had a good practice, I took S home and said good night to the other boys and W. I went home and relaxed watching some football and then off to bed.
I have a coaching session on Wednesday so today I hope to have some time to write my letter to W. My coach will then review and help me revise anything that doesn't sound right. Anybody else have any experience in writing this type of apology letter?
Last edited by Cadet; 01/10/1707:56 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17
Had a busy day today. Went to work then to the grocerie store to stock up on food drink and snacks. It is my night to have the boys so I found a new recipe to cook for dinner. FIL was over for dinner. The new meal was a big success. It is a great feeling to make a meal from scratch and have everyone enjoy it. This is a definite 180 for me.
I found some time today to write my apology letter to W. I will go over it again a couple of times before talking to coach tomorrow. I also have a appt with my IC tomorrow. I am looking forward to talking to him about how to deal with my jealousy and anxious attachment style. I know this is something that goes back to when I was 10 and my parents got divorced. I believe this is the biggest thing I want to work on for myself and any future R with or without my W.
