Heard from the other wife last night. she is kicking him out of the house. He is staying with friends this week but then getting her own place. She is preparing for divorce but may be willing to take him back.
Craziness! My advice is to read as much as you can about validation, detachment. If you want her back you will have to do your best to suppress your anger. Order DB books asap. Good luck.
Me37 W33 T:8 M:5 D3 BD 11/2015 EA+PA w boss 12/2015 S 3/2016
Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned
Just saw a picture of her at the wedding we were supposed to go to this weekend (where the bride and her bf now know about her affair bc i told them). Shes giggling and not wearing her ring. dagger.
Just saw a picture of her at the wedding we were supposed to go to this weekend (where the bride and her bf now know about her affair bc i told them). Shes giggling and not wearing her ring. dagger.
Crap like that is so petty and immature. My W did the same thing. Takes off ring, changes facebook relationship status.
It just shows they aren't thinking clearly.
Goodluck with everything, my best piece of advice is to read all the "Rules" on this site. I wish I had before I made some of the mistakes I did as soon as I found out about the affair.
Me-33 W-29 D- 2 M- 8 months, T- 3.5 years BD Feb 15 2015 S 4/12/16 W says she plans to file for d
I actually don't think it's immature Fin. I took off my ring, deleted my WW from FB. It's all symbols, and you need to show her that you can do the same. That what they're doing means nothing to you. They mean nothing to you. Well not that harsh, but I hope you get the drift.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
I'm seeing her tomorrow morning for the first time since I found out on Tuesday. We are taking a plane home together. I seperated our seats. Then we are driving to our house, she is packing her stuff and moving out for at least the next week (to live with a gf, supposedly). How do I act towards her if my ultimate goal is to a)break them up b) reconciliation?
