Can anyone give me a clue how to use the searh? Unless you know exactly what you are looking for and know exactly the 90 day period where it lives, you are out of luck. For example, Sandi mentioned a thread by RobX I believe. Well, I can't find the post by Sandi that mentions this because of how horrible search is, and I can't find RobX because he could have posted anytime in the last 10 years. It would take forever to find any posts by him trying to search 3 months at a time. No matter what I do, I always get either no matches or too many. What am I missing?
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling
Can anyone give me a clue how to use the searh? Unless you know exactly what you are looking for and know exactly the 90 day period where it lives, you are out of luck. For example, Sandi mentioned a thread by RobX I believe. Well, I can't find the post by Sandi that mentions this because of how horrible search is, and I can't find RobX because he could have posted anytime in the last 10 years. It would take forever to find any posts by him trying to search 3 months at a time. No matter what I do, I always get either no matches or too many. What am I missing?
Try searching with google. Robx :divorcebusting
Just for the record, Robx did not save his marriage and had some ideas that I would NOT endorse. For instance dating before you are divorced.
If you use the search feature you should be able to click on his name from one of his posts and a drop down menu will come up that should take you to his threads.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
Jim, The forum's search function only work on small date range. If you try RobX you'll see most of these are just people referring to his posts, not posts he actually wrote (I think it was back in 2009). Cadet's tip works much better.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
Go to my stuff, and click on watched list then click on edit watched users. Then click on add a user to your list. Type in his user name. Go to the very last page to start from the beginning.
Thanks all of you. Cadet, I should have Googled! GWH, thanks for the link.
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling
Go to my stuff, and click on watched list then click on edit watched users. Then click on add a user to your list. Type in his user name. Go to the very last page to start from the beginning.
This does not work for users that have been banned from the forum, i.e Robx
